Speed dating for 70-90 year olds?

Documentary filmmaker Steve Loring’s film, The Age of Love, is due out in New York in November. According to the website about the film: “THE AGE OF LOVE follows the humorous and poignant adventures of thirty seniors in Rochester, NY who sign up for a first-of-its-kind speed dating event exclusively for 70- to 90-year-olds. From anxious anticipation through the dates that follow, it’s an unexpected tale of intrepid seniors who lay their hearts on the line, and discover how dreams and desires change—or don’t change—from first love to the far reaches of life.”

http://theageoflovemovie.com/ (click on The Trailer)

More and more I am reading about projects, films, books, and activities that highlight the older older population. In my own film project, The Beauty of Aging, all of the women interviewed and filmed were over the age of 80. They were all engaged in life despite any challenges they had.

It seems that we are developing a different cultural mindset about what it means to be an older person. Yes, some people are ill, disabled or otherwise unable to be active. That does not mean that there’s a disease called aging. Current research supports the belief that good attitudes, active engagement in life with people, projects and activities, creative involvement, and a network of support all bode toward a good old age.

I don’t know about you, but I find all this inspiring and a source of hope. It’s great to have these role models for a lively life as I move toward my 7th decade. I often draw upon my memories of the women in my film project as sources of encouragement and motivation. When Hedda Bolgar says that “the best time is now” at age 100, and Lavada Campbell calls her diagnosis of lung cancer “another growth spurt” in her life as she is into her 80’s, or Shirley Windward wrote 32 poems at the age of 93 when in a recovery center after her stroke, I go WOW. These are some amazing women! I’m grateful to have known and filmed them and enjoy sharing their stories with you. http://www.beautyofaging.com (check out Trailers, The Women and Hedda tabs)

I’d love to hear your thoughts about this topic, the Age of Love film, and any stories you want to share!

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One thought on “Speed dating for 70-90 year olds?

  1. I think we’re in a stage socially where we’re trying both to define and come to terms with a healthy and active 75+ generation — an entire segment that didn’t really exist fifty years ago. So,as a filmmaker, I decided to start by seeing how our hearts and desires change as we age. If you’re in NYC, come see the film on November 15 (docnyc.net) — we’re rolling out wider on Valentine’s Day 2015, so check theAgeofLoveMovie.com for info. And keep up this important work — your trailer looks great!

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